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「五分鐘一本好書」 佩珊 2022/02/08
《小婦人》：一本寫給女兒的書，書中「三個道理」，早讓女兒知道 :
一、比起給女兒金錢和物質，
更需要教會她有一顆愛和善良的心。
二、當陷入愛情時，
需要教會女兒對待感情的態度。
三、在生活中，啟迪女兒思想，
做一個真正高貴的女性 。
http://www.wendybaby127.com/doc_eGhFVlhkZjNsRVdYbTBJQzAvSmNCUT09
我盡所能教孩子成為真誠，有愛心的人。
相愛的彼此互相尊重、忠實。
絕對不傷害、破壞別人婚姻、
不介入别人的感情、不偷不搶，
堂堂正正做人
這是我給予孩子的教導。
同時以身作則。
我盡力去教養孩子
陪孩子成長成為正直優雅的人。
生命中有很多課題必需面對，
我感恩能與孩子們分享共勉。
無論兒子或女兒，
父母總是給予真誠無私的愛教養孩子。
I have read « Five minutes a good book »
Editor : Pei Shan 2022/02/08
« Little Women » a book for daughter,
and good to let her know “ Three Principles " of the book :
- More need to teach daughter to have a heart of love and kindness than give money and material.
- Teach daughter her attitudes about feelings when falling in love.
- Inspiration for daughter to be a truly elegant woman in daily life.
http://www.wendybaby127.com/doc_eGhFVlhkZjNsRVdYbTBJQzAvSmNCUT09
I do my best to teach my children to be honest
and caring person.
Love each other with respect and loyalty.
Absolutely no harm, destroy someone's marriage.
Interfering in other people's relationships is always a mistake.
Not to steal anything or rob anyone and to be upright.
This is what I teach my children.
Also lead by example.
I try my best to raise my children.
Accompanying them
to grow up to be a person of integrity and grace.
There are many challenges in life...
I am grateful to share my love with them.
Whether daughter or son, parents always care with the sincere and unselfish love
to moral up-bringing and education their children.
Postscript :
I appreciate to have the lovely and sincere feedback from a graceful lady Aurélie :
《 I found this blog touching and inspiring 🙏
I can only imagine how difficult it must be to raise daughters and I am sure than your daughters are
very grateful for all the moral education
and example you have given them,
as I am grateful for the similar education
my mother has given me.
« To be a person of integrity and grace » or
« a truly elegant woman ».
Those are goals that resonate a lot with me.
There is no clear recipe on how to do that,
and I found also that the best way to learn
is to look at the example of other people.
Any children who can learn these things
from their parents is truly blessed.
I also feel that grace and integrity are learned also through challenges.
Grace and integrity shine the most under hardship
and challenges, not when everything is fine and easy.
One never stops learning and improving,
it is the process of an entire lifetime.
On your point that love and kindness are more important than money and material things,
it reminded me of what I learned from my mother
who learned from her parents.
Cultivate the valuable things in life that nobody can ever steal and take from you: education and knowledge, love, care, integrity, grace, kindness,
a great character.
Money and material things, people can always steal and take from you. But what you have in your heart and in your head cannot be taken.
Thank you for sharing these beautiful thoughts ❤️
I hope you are well and healthy 🥰 》
